Saturday, November 2, 2013

Listen Up...




Do you think it doesn't matter how/what you eat? That your children are too little for their diets to affect their long term health? Well think again. Donald and I learned Friday at our PCP's office that our children (yours too) make new fat cells more readily in early childhood than at any other time. Then it tapers off during adolescence. That gives new meaning to that "baby fat" that we all thought was so harmless. Why is this so important? Because the only way to remove fat cells from the body is liposuction, which means unless you go under the knife you are stuck with them. I think if alot of parents understood this and the fact that your children pay more attention to the foods you choose for you then the foods you choose for them. Then childhood obesity would be pretty much abolished by now. I know that this was a major AHA! moment for Donald and I. Having a family history myself of diabetes, heart disease, stroke, HB and the list goes on, I knew that I needed to do better. That is the reason I had my gastric bypass and follow a low carb, lower fat diet and exercise regularly. But what hit me the hardest was that as an adoptive mom we do not know our children's complete medical history. We aren't sure if diabetes runs in their biological family. So what better way to protect them against an unseen enemy than to limit their sugar intake. Increase whole grains, veggies, fruits, etc? So along with Donald and I eating low carb, whole complex carbs, lean protein, fruits and veggies, so are our children.

Now I know what you are thinking. You are thinking but DeAnna my child will starve, and oh the fights that will ensue. And to that I say....buck up, you are the parent. God gave that child to you and we need to be good stewards of our greatest gifts. They won't starve. It took our kids about a week to quit asking for white bread, they didn't like the idea but once they realized that "brown bread" was the new norm, they quit complaining and got on board. Our Halloween candy has been enjoyed some, but it is put away out of sight until it is the right time for them to enjoy a treat (after playtime and their meal has been enjoyed first).

Do you remember the old saying "Children follow what you do, not what you say?" Well that is completely true. Our 7 year old came to me while in the middle of playing Barbies with her sister and told me very seriously "Mama, Ken's Daddy cannot have Chinese food anymore." I asked why. Her reply is "He has to eat low carb and no sugar like you and daddy so he can be healthy and do more stuff, and I am gonna do that too". Your children are watching and learning more from your actions than you can ever imagine. Let's do right by them, give them healthy parents as well as a healthy lifestyle that will serve them well the rest of their lives.

Monday, October 28, 2013

I wonder...



I woke up very early this morning with one thought on my mind. Could Donald and I save enough money to buy a smaller, less expensive home outright and reduce our current debt? So I started perusing real estate sites and most homes that are super affordable are in terrible neighborhoods, however I think I am going to start saving my pennies in hopes that we find something safe and super affordable. The worse that could happen is that we have a chunk to put on our current mortgage, reducing that expense. I no longer want to be driven by consumerism, life is about much more than what we own. So with this new mindset I am planning on holding a yard sale to reduce the amount of things we own. We really need to simplify and this will start the saving process. Wish me luck!

Thursday, October 24, 2013

Day 8



This is getting easier and easier. I find that the longer I go without spending the more intentional I am when I do have to part with my money. Yesterday I had to do a protein and small toiletry run. I stayed focused and only bought what we needed. It also dawned on me that if I don't take money with me, I can't spend it. So I made me a grocery money can and will not take money with me unless I am going to pick up things we NEED. Yesterday this kept me from blowing money on gum and a drink. I have started keeping a water bottle in my van and just filled it up at a water fountain. Saved me $1.45 and didn't take any extra effort on my part really.

Monday, October 21, 2013

Day 5 of no spending.



Today things get interesting. We are nearing the end of our Stevia reserve, dish detergent is running low and veggies are getting thin. However I am committed to not running out and buying more just because I can. In Sunday School we were talking about Daily Bread, and I do believe that lesson has prepared me for this week, it helped give me the proper perspective needed. Here in America we have more than we even realize. Even though things are running low (things we enjoy rather than need) I know we can and will make it to the end of the week with no problem. God has already met our needs over and above what we need. So I will not spend until I have to and we will be thankful for what God has provided. After all water is better than artificially colored fruit drinks and even tea sweetened with Stevia. There is nothing wrong with not spending and just enjoying what is.

Days 3 & 4



Saturday was dinner night with my sister in law and niece. I made a pork loin and ribs with seasoned green beans and bbq rice (rice made with bbq sauce and the broth from the meat). We watched the first Harry Potter and visited for Drew's upcoming birthday and to celebrate his finishing the first Harry Potter book.

Sunday was church and then home to enjoy a baked chicken, creamed spinach and baked sweet potato for lunch. Donald had a hard time, he wanted to go eat out since he is only off 2 Sundays a month. But he was a trooper and enjoyed an afternoon of lunch and football while the kiddos played outside enjoying our nice fallish weather.

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Day 2...Grocery Run and Cupcake Wars



Today entailed a trip to the doctor's office to buy my protein shakes and a trip to the grocery store for milk, grits, noodles and green peas. Donald did treat us to a Sonic Unsweetened Tea (it was happy hour) while we were out running errands. So all in all a fun day.

Since the kiddos have a long weekend we did Cupcake Wars Home Version, complete with Judges Narration and every thing. The cupcake mixes and toppings were already in the pantry. We all had so much fun. How are you being frugal this weekend and still enjoying the finer things in life?

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Day 1 (of our days of nothingness)



So today is our official kick-off of our indefinite days of nothing. We started the day with a breakfast of homemade pancakes and bacon. I walked the littles to school, and hung out my first load of laundry, all the while praying our forcasted rain holds off until they are dry. Tonight is movie and junk food night since the kids are out of school tomorrow. We do have cable since we get a better rate having all services bundled so we will watch a free movie from the on-demand menu. So all in all I would say we are off to a great start.